Terrence Howard-- No longer on My list

So I am taking Terrence Howard off of my Man list- You know the list all of us ladies have... all those famous men we fantasize about every once and a while.

I just read an article on the smocking gun about him being involved in Domestic Violence with estranged wife. I have been there with an X and I side with Oprah on this--if a man hits you once, he'll do it again!!

(Click on the image to read the scoop on his arrest)

The first time a man shows you that much anger and disrespect, its over...you might try to fix things but in the end the respect is lost and second chances won't work. We don't forget and we might say that we forgive you but the memories will just stay in the back of our minds

I married my best friend and I can't imagine him ever hitting me. We both get frustrated and we argue, but as he says "it keeps things spicy". Sometimes ladies, we like to have that reason to have make up nights...need I say more? True love is so special! If you ever doubt yourself, just think, what would I tell my daughter to do?

So Women!!! There are so many good men out there!!! DO NOT SETTLE!!!